Pedestals

When you think of a pedestal, what is it you think of? I bet some of the few things that came to mind were a throne, a support, or a simple platform. And it is true, there are two meanings or implications of the word. The first is the literal translation, a platform. A slightly raised pot where you put something or someone of importance and value on. Maybe a family heirloom, or, in olden days they put royalty or higher-ups higher, so it showed their superiority to everyone else. But figuratively it can mean idealizing someone in your eyes. There are also different types of that kind of pedestal too. One is worshiping the ground someone walks on, thinking they can do nothing wrong, imitating their every move. You've seen them, they are the suck-ups at work, the blind idiots, or just idiots. Now the one that is good, more pertains to love. An example would be a mother loving her children, or just two people who would risk everything for someone else. The worst kind of pedestal ever is to put yourself on one. You become a burden to others, and you seem like a pompous a**hole. Be careful of what you do, and mindful of others.

Support

Support the ones you love, simple as that. If you have a friend that you know needs you, but doesn't want you there, let them know that you are there for them, but don't bother them. Imagine yourself with a huge problem, even if you don't want to talk about it, knowing that you have people that with drop everything for you, is a comfort. People need a support system, however minor. Women tend to believe in this more than men, but it applies to them also. They have buddies that will stick with them, even if they aren't very touchy -- feel-y. If you don't have a support system - family, friends, or a significant other - how can you feel safe? I don't know about other people, but by significant other, family, and friends are my safety net, to which I fall on if I need it. So pay debts owed to you, or just do someone a favor, and support those you love, especially those who have helped you in the past, for you never know when you're gonna need it again.

Places

We all have places we want to go. Places like Italy, Ireland, or even something less foreign. It could be a point in our lives that we want to reach, or just a short-term goal for tomorrow, but I'm not here to talk about those kind of places. I am here to talk about your place in life, and how it plays out. There is a time and place to speak your mind, depending on your relationship. Unless absolutely necessary, a grandparent shouldn't interfere with the raising of their grandchildren, an aunt or uncle shouldn't constantly give their opinion about their nieces or nephews, and a stepparent shouldn't conflict with the upbringing of their stepchildren. Think; don't say anything if you aren't the one in charge, and if you think you are, remove yourself from the situation, and judge fairly. Use your brain if you have one; you could upset a lot of situations if you try to take a position you aren't meant for.

Pay It Forward

People laugh and say, "That's the understatement of the year," when I say I have opinions. I think this world is a disgrace upon itself. There is a lack of education, discipline, and love for others in the younger minds of today. I don't say this to sound like a pompous woman, I say this because it's truly disappointing.
People don't consider others, I can't name the amount of times that I see a heartless driver cut someone off, or that I see a teenager disrespect their parents. I see it among my peers, and it angers me because we know better. People know better, and no one cares. No one cares that you can see the world falling apart in front of our eyes. Divorce rates rising, adoption agencies and orphanages overflowing, and no one trying to fix anything, and if they do, without much success.
Maybe we should take stock in the movie Pay It Forward. If we could just pass on kindness, and let it grow, we might have hope.